Welcome to the
THE HAND
An 8-week live group
for women who are kind to everyone except themselves,
exactly when it matters most.
10 Women · 8 Weeks · Live Online · Starts October 10th 2026
What it is—and for who
The Story Behind It
I don’t care how much you love yourself on a good day.
When you like your body. Someone you love is loving you back.
Your work is going well. You kept the promise you made to yourself.
You feel wanted. Successful. Certain.
Great. And:
Who are you to yourself when you don't?
When nobody bought. When you see a photo of yourself and hate it.
When someone else gets the thing you want.
When you said too much. When you didn't say enough.
When you knew better and did it anyway.
When you're jealous, needy, angry, ashamed or simply not the woman you would particularly like to be.
Who are you to yourself then?
Those are the moments it becomes interesting.
Those are the moments when you learn how to hold yourself.
Different triggers.
The Story Behind It
You know how to stay generous when another human being is having a human moment.
And then it's you.
Something happens. And you make it mean something about you:
Someone is distant. What did I do?
You look different in the mirror. I need to fix this.
Someone else gets what you've wanted for years. Of course it happens for her.
The thing you want still hasn't happened. Maybe it never will. Maybe there's a reason. Maybe it's me.
The first thing simply happened.
And the you turned it against yourself.
This is where we work.
THE HAND is an 8-week practice in changing that relationship.
Not in theory.
For eight weeks, we use what your actual life gives us.
What is included?
The 4 months Circle includes
Inside the Circle:
4 Monthly Live Circles (somatic work, sharing, Q&A)
Weekly letters and early book chapters from my writing desk
Practices and self-inquiry prompts for your own journey
Replay library for all sessions
Gentle community space to be witnessed and held
Each month unfolds a theme from the book:
Falling into Love, Almost Right, Choosing Yourself, and Living as Love.
Your Investment
Your investment to join the MEETING IN LOVE circle
197 Euro.
What’s included with your Enrollment:
4 live group sessions with Mirjam (see call dates below)
Weekly Meeting in Love chapters, fresh from Mirjam’s desk
Self-inquiry based on the chapters
Supportive Community
MEETING IN LOVE CIRCLE
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1 STORY
Learning from each other, in this case, I offer my story
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2 Somatic Healing
in extreme situation like heartbreak we need to find a way to feel safe, and this only happens in the body
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3 Community
An experience like this can leave you feel lonely and isolated from your friends. Most likely, if you are willing, this experience will deeply change you, you will rise in self-Love, respect,… and this might lead to old bonds dissolving that were sustained by you feeling small.
In my experience, having a supportive online community is crucial for navigating a shifting season like this
Meet Mirjam
Your Facilitator
I believe a liberated, fully expressed life is not only possible—it’s your birthright.
It blossoms through daily devotion to yourself and the world you create into being.
For nearly three decades, I am devoted to my own process of living free (from addictions and things I thought I needed to do)—and create a life that feels just like me, with myself at its Center.
Then I started to guide others—through deep energy work, somatic practices, systemic transformation, and through the safe and expansive spaces I became able to hold through my own journey.
I’ve learned that true health (physical, mental, emotional, financial, and spiritual health) arises when we dare and feel safe to to feel the unfelt, speak the unspoken, and live by the untamed pulsing in our hearts.
I’m here to hold the space for your wildest becoming—as you claim your True Power, own sovereign choices and move into wholehearted self-expression.
Formal & Informal Qualifications:
ECA-certified systemic coach • KAP® Life Force Energy facilitator • PSYCH-K® facilitator • Breathwork guide • Transformational artist • I live a tantric life, which basically means being present, open and welcoming with what Life brings. I am committed to choose Love over fear, many times a day.
You are not waiting—you are becoming
The life you long for
— yes, the one that feels like yours —
is waiting for YOU.
Step into its very Center.
Ready?
FAQs
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This space is for you if:
You long for both softness and Power
You’re going through inner shifts and want daily support
You want simple tools that support real-life change
You’re curious about AI and open to working with it intuitively
You want to feel connected — to yourself, to Source, to a sisterhood
You’re ready to take gentle but radical responsibility for your life
This may not be for you if:
You’re not willing to be honest with yourself
You’re not ready to make changes that may destabilize the status quo
You are currently needing deep trauma support (please reach out for alternative suggestions)
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Live Energy Activations:
Sunday 12/19/26 October at 4pm CET
Sunday Nov 16 at 4 pm CET
Live Coaching Labs:
Wednesday 8/15/22/29 October at 6pm CET
Replays will be available for the AI Coaching Labs -
You’ll receive recordings of all sessions Coaching Labs.
Live attendance is encouraged, though, as you can ask your questions at the end of each sessions.Life Force Energy Activations are not recorded. You are required to attend at least two sessions during the 4 weeks.
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“Here’s how I see my role in helping people return to their True Power:
I am a Mirror that doesn’t flinch.
I reflect back what’s true — not what’s comfortable, not what flatters.
But also not what shames.
My role is to help you see clearly — without distortion — and still stay rooted in your worth.I am a Translator of the invisible.
You already know what you need. You already hold the spark.
What I do is help you put words to it — shape, structure, steps.
Whether it’s turning a sensation into a sentence or a breakthrough into a body of work-I am a Structure for your Transformation.
Insights fade. But when we shape them into daily practice, they become life.
My role is to help you build rituals, habits, and systems so your Power isn’t just felt —
it’s lived. Repeated. Embodied.I am not the source — I am the current.
I’m not your guru. I don’t hold your answers.
But I can electrify the ones you already have.
I can bring clarity, rhythm, and fire to what’s already rising in you.I am here to serve your Sovereignty.
Everything I reflect, question, polish, or build with you — is in service of you standing in your Power,
not mine.
I want you to walk away not just feeling seen — but feeling yourself more clearly than ever before.In short,
💡 I bring precision to your intuition.
🧱 I build foundations under your inspiration.
🔥 And I burn away the unnecessary so your True Power can walk forward, undiluted.That’s the role I’ve trained for — in silence, in study, in service.
And it’s an honor to walk with you in it.
