Learnings from the In-Between.
Welcome to the In-Between
This Blogg is for everyone who has left a life they knew.
Or is about to leave a life they knew.
And has nothing new in their hands yet.
This account is about the In-Between.
The place between a non-matching life and... what comes next.
It is for everyone who secretly wonders:
What if better than imagined never comes?
We live in a world that talks a lot about getting there.
Finding the partner.
Building the business.
Discovering your purpose.
Manifesting the dream.
But very little is said about what happens in between.
The space after you have become honest enough to leave.
And before life has revealed what comes next.
That is the fertile territory we are interested in here.
We look at the In-Between as a place of transformation rather than a bridge.
Not as something to rush, push or suffer through. Not as a mistake or waiting room for “your turn“.
But as a place with a purpose of its own.
This is not a manifestation blog.
And while the general metaphysical laws might be referred to here,
This blog is not about getting what you want.
It is about being fully in this world.
It is about building a quality of living that helps you connect with life deeply.
Especially in the phases when life does not look the way you want it to.
Especially when you are living inside the gap between where you are and where you wish to be.
Eventually, this capacity may help you enjoy what you want on a much deeper level once it arrives.
But that is not the topic here.
The topic is the in-between itself.
Because I believe the in-between is the birthplace of you.
You have probably heard the sayings:
Diamonds are formed under pressure.
Olives need to be pressed to become oil.
I dislike these sayings.
Why?
Because hidden inside them is the idea that you are something that needs to be crushed.
And while this is partly true (some habits need to be broken, some self-views need to be challenged, some patterns need to fall apart) you, the beautiful you, do not need to be crushed.
You want to be freed.
And if this cannot happen through a natural unfolding, like a blossom opening in its own time, then yes, sometimes the outer layers need to crack.
Not because there is something wrong with you.
But because there is something right with you that is trying to emerge.
This space is dedicated to that emergence.
Welcome.